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    Let's Talk Sex
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Nov 22, 2020
    • 3 min

    Let's Talk Sex

    What if you could improve your sex life outside the bedroom? For many, having sex is easier than talking about it. Yet, couples who claim...
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    Our formula for an eXtraOrdinary Marriage (ICA+T=XO)
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Nov 19, 2020
    • 4 min

    Our formula for an eXtraOrdinary Marriage (ICA+T=XO)

    Like most people we got married believing in the fairytale happily ever after. We were the perfect couple, in the beginning and on the...
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    The Mirror Workout
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Nov 5, 2020
    • 4 min

    The Mirror Workout

    Strength Training Relational skills and abilities like conflict resolution and communication are the muscles that keep your marriage...
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    What’s Your Love Language?
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Nov 4, 2020
    • 5 min

    What’s Your Love Language?

    The Language of Love Frequency:   Daily Reps: 1-2 Time: varies Intensity: Light/Moderate Workout: Cardio Exercise Overview Begin by...
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    A Day at the Lake With My Best Friend
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Nov 4, 2020
    • 3 min

    A Day at the Lake With My Best Friend

    Even now as we write this article we are sitting at the edge of Fenton Lake in northern New Mexico, a short drive from home, spending...
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    Start Your Day Connected – Daily Relationship Discovery
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Nov 4, 2020
    • 1 min

    Start Your Day Connected – Daily Relationship Discovery

    Daily Discovery Frequency: Daily Reps: 1 Time: 2-3 minutes Intensity: Light Muscle group: Core Every morning before you say goodbye,...
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    Admiration, Gratitude, Affection Can Save Your Marriage
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Nov 4, 2020
    • 1 min

    Admiration, Gratitude, Affection Can Save Your Marriage

    Daily Admiration: Frequency: Daily Reps: 3-5 Time: 5-10 minutes Intensity: Light Workout: Cardio Throughout the day find simple ways to...
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    Wedding Vow Exercise
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jul 13, 2020
    • 2 min

    Wedding Vow Exercise

    Vows are promises we make and too often promises we break.
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    The Significance of Wedding Vows
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jul 13, 2020
    • 4 min

    The Significance of Wedding Vows

    To Have & Hold, for Better or Worse - While not the only significant part of a wedding ceremony, the vows are the center of it.
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    Do You Remember Your Wedding Vow to Cherish Your Spouse?
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jul 13, 2020
    • 5 min

    Do You Remember Your Wedding Vow to Cherish Your Spouse?

    Love and CHERISH! Commitments we all made and most of us have never thought about. What does it mean to cherish our spouse?
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    Forget the Past – Focus Forward
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jul 3, 2020
    • 5 min

    Forget the Past – Focus Forward

    This may sound counter-intuitive and go against all the emotions that are raging in you right now. “Forget the past??? Are you kidding me?
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    Connected and Intimate
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jul 3, 2020
    • 2 min

    Connected and Intimate

    When we talk about your relational core we are talking about your connectedness, your level of intimacy & friendship.
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    Dating Shouldn’t End With Marriage
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jul 3, 2020
    • 4 min

    Dating Shouldn’t End With Marriage

    Make it a weekly priority to date your spouse and watch your connection and intimacy increase.
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    Know and Be Known -- Deepen Your Relational Intimacy
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jul 3, 2020
    • 2 min

    Know and Be Known -- Deepen Your Relational Intimacy

    One of the greatest experiences in life is to know and be known...and still loved.
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    Here’s Your Sign
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jul 2, 2020
    • 1 min

    Here’s Your Sign

    A stop sign just before you get home is a great trigger to prepare you for your entrance back into the presence of your family.
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    Cardio: The Heart of the Relationship
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jun 30, 2020
    • 7 min

    Cardio: The Heart of the Relationship

    Our heart & lungs are the life-giving organs that provide blood and air to our bodies. Together, they give & sustain life.
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    Strength Training: Strong Relational Muscles for a Strong Relationship
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jun 30, 2020
    • 4 min

    Strength Training: Strong Relational Muscles for a Strong Relationship

    Our relational muscles need to be stretched & strengthened just like our physical muscles. Otherwise, we suffer from atrophy due to neglect.
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    3 Ways to Stay Strong During Life Transitions
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jun 29, 2020
    • 3 min

    3 Ways to Stay Strong During Life Transitions

    Endurance is learning to navigate the stages of life to overcome the challenges and transitions as the marriage grows and changes.
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    Valentine’s Day: Who’s Responsible?
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jun 29, 2020
    • 2 min

    Valentine’s Day: Who’s Responsible?

    Valentine’s Day is a couple’s holiday. It’s not just for the ladies. It is to be shared with one another, in both benefit & responsibility.
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    Flexibility Helps Us Navigate Change in Relationships
    Darrell & Robin MacLearn
    • Jun 29, 2020
    • 3 min

    Flexibility Helps Us Navigate Change in Relationships

    Change - the law of life. No one can escape it. We change our age, friends, & address. Some even change spouses. Flexibility is the key.
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