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"Everything great starts in the mind. If you master the mind you master your life." ~ Darrell MacLearn

Life coaching helps you process the thoughts, limiting beliefs, and cognitive loops and patterns that keep you stuck and gives you the tools to break free!

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It was sucking the life out of me

I was stuck and I knew it - Something had to change!!!!

Now that you’re older, you know deep down that there’s more out there for you, but you’re really unsure about how to find the meaning you’re looking for.

The coaching work that we do together is life changing and truly transformational. You’ll go from feeling like you’re stuck in midlife muck to feeling free and able to conquer the world. You will conquer the limiting beliefs that have held you back and discover the unlimited possibilities that await. It’s that much of a change!


Does your job look great on paper but it’s sucking the life out of you like mine was? I don’t know about you, but I was dying a slow, painful death day by day hating getting up and going to work. We had moved away from family to pursue this "opportunity." My dad was suffering from cancer and I was no longer nearby.  But I'm making good money I told myself.  I was empty and dying inside.  My gifts, talents, passions, dreams, and desires had all been set aside.  I was in a funk.  I needed a change.

This is why I get what you’re going through. I was there too. I know first-hand what it’s like to feel confused and fearful about change. I know what it is like to live with regret and the "wish I would've done this when I was younger."  I know what it is like to play the tapes of, "I'm too old to start a business" and "my time and opportunity have passed." But I also know what it’s like to bust through.

It didn’t quite feel like a classic midlife crisis, I had already claimed that one when I about ruined my marriage.  Instead, I was smack dab in the middle of a midlife funk and I knew something had to change.  

The upside of the industry I was in was my opportunity to daily listen to podcasts. I became a personal growth and development junkie. I would consume 4-5 podcasts per day and I discovered the incredible value of coaching in my life.  I began working on me and my mind and my mindset and discovered the freedom to break through and break out.

Who says you are too old to start a business in your 50's?  Who says you are too old to run the London Marathon in your 50's? Who says you are too old to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro for the second time in your 50's?  Who says you can't live your dreams and use the gifts and abilities with which you were created to change your world?  WHO SAYS???

And now we love helping our clients get results that are life transforming.

We have skills and tools to help YOU get excited about your life too. It’s all about regret-proofing the rest of your life.

Coaching can help you take back control of your life and design the eXtraOrdinary life you want.

Robin's Change in Life

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Life Coaching can take you to the top of your game!

Lack of focus and direction in life

Unmet or unfulfilled dreams and goals

Feel tired, frustrated, overwhelmed

Dissatisfied with your job or career

Lack passion, purpose and meaning in life

Struggling to kick bad habits and create good ones

Just wish someone would give you the answers

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Life is way too short for having regrets - and then we regret having regrets

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Chrissy Valdez

Life Coaching

I was referred to XtraO Coaching by a friend of mine because I was not in a very good place mentally and emotionally. Darrell & Robin helped me by really focusing on my thoughts and feelings and how my actions & results were a direct result. By utilizing their Thought Model, I was able to start recognizing the thoughts that were driving my feelings and therefore my actions. I was able to start changing the results I was having in my life and therefore have gained so much clarity and joy because I am in control of them now. I highly recommend XtraO Coaching for everyone who needs to strengthen their mental and emotional health in order to get to the next level towards becoming their best self!